To send any message at all is always to risk misunderstanding and certainly questions, and I can understand your discomfort with questions from all sides. But on the other hand, every question is an opportunity to make (in briefer form) some of the points you've made here. I know making a point out of some sense of personal responsibility for the situation of all observant Jewish women isn't why you're doing this, but heck, you might even inspire someone to feel okay about using your interpretation or a similar one.