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debka_notion) wrote2007-01-21 12:15 am
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Shabbos And Such
It was a hectic week. And then Thursday morning I was asked to do some laynen, and I said yes, and then agreed (because I like being useful and am not good at saying no to these sort of ritual requests) to read 2 aliyot and the rosh chodesh maftir (which I knew already and just had to look over quickly)- but that was still 31 psukim to learn from scratch. And the way Friday went, I ended up learning 19 of them Friday night after dinner. So- I was kind of nervous. Really, I was more nervous about that layning than I have been in a while. And it turned out alright. Not wonderfully, but certainly decently enough. Just not good enough for me to really be proud of, besides that I learned and retained them in a pretty darn short period of time. And I lead p'sukei d'zimra, because the only other people there on time were the gabbay and two folks who didn't want to lead.
Meals were interesting too- dinner I had with a hallmate and a friend of a friend. Lunch was a Brush potluck, and both a lot of fun and with good food. And it was fun and still ended in time for me to get a nap- although I woke up only minutes before mincha. And then the room was both sweltering and sans lights for mincha. But oh well.
And then there was tsuris with ma'ariv, because there were some people in the room singing, and they just kept on singing. And eventually they asked if they could daven with us and we of course said sure, but they kept singing. And then we started davening, and they were ticked off because they weren't given time to get siddurim. So- there was drama. There will probably be More drama. Ugh.
And this evening the women of my class had a Rosh Chodesh gathering, and it was a lot of fun- just very casual and very comfortable. Learned a lot about my classmates. And found out some rather surprising things of a variety of natures.
Meals were interesting too- dinner I had with a hallmate and a friend of a friend. Lunch was a Brush potluck, and both a lot of fun and with good food. And it was fun and still ended in time for me to get a nap- although I woke up only minutes before mincha. And then the room was both sweltering and sans lights for mincha. But oh well.
And then there was tsuris with ma'ariv, because there were some people in the room singing, and they just kept on singing. And eventually they asked if they could daven with us and we of course said sure, but they kept singing. And then we started davening, and they were ticked off because they weren't given time to get siddurim. So- there was drama. There will probably be More drama. Ugh.
And this evening the women of my class had a Rosh Chodesh gathering, and it was a lot of fun- just very casual and very comfortable. Learned a lot about my classmates. And found out some rather surprising things of a variety of natures.
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Why does it smell like halokho doesn't have primacy in a community that holds thus?
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In the parlance of modernity, social convention gains its strength from claiming scientific (often biological, sometimes sociological) foundationalism, which is basically the same thing as claiming to be from God (which is just another foundationalist language, although it needn't be).
And there are at least two serious errors in this paragraph. The first is your divorce of halokho from social convention. (One of the reasons that people find halokho's delineations of gender roles "not OK" is because the social conventions codified in halokho no longer accord with the way those codified activities are experienced -- the social coventions have shifted.) The second error is your assumption that halokho has overarching theory of gender roles. (A third error is to use the word "halokho" to imply univocality as opposed to multivocality, and potentially a fourth is using "halokho" as a synechdochy at all.)