I've realized yet another thing, recently. Manipulation really irks me. People who want me to be how they see me, and not how I am bother me. I may like them otherwise, but that one trait is very troubling.
That's a different question, if related. But when they'd probably like you better if they could see who you really are to some extent? Or when it seems to be pure stubbornness?
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