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debka_notion ([personal profile] debka_notion) wrote2006-10-18 01:24 am

So Much For That

[livejournal.com profile] zodaicmg dumped me earlier tonight. It was rather unexpected, and I'm really not sure what's going on with me now. But well, that's the state of matters. And I don't even really know what to say about it. I'm just sort of lost and confused.

[identity profile] chinchillama.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 06:05 am (UTC)(link)
*Really big hugs*

If you need to talk send me an email with your number and I'll call you, I should be free most of today (wednesday)

[identity profile] tirerim.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 06:12 am (UTC)(link)
Eep. <HUG>

[identity profile] zachkessin.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Hug

if you need to chat find me on IM or Skype

[identity profile] sovevuni.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 08:14 am (UTC)(link)
Oh.

I'm sorry, Maya. You are in my prayers.

((hugs))

[identity profile] nahamu.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
[hug]

[identity profile] ploni-bat-ploni.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 10:39 am (UTC)(link)
I dunno context, but...

Ofcourse a really, really big hug!!

I hope you have a support group of friends/family who will stand by you.

Best wishes!

[identity profile] tovaks.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 11:09 am (UTC)(link)
More **Hugs** from this one. :(

[identity profile] fiddledragon.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 11:42 am (UTC)(link)
Ouch! That sounds hard. *hugs and tea*

[identity profile] sharonaf.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear it. Something like that coming out of the blue...
*hugs also*
Gack, I wish we could have you over soon but I can't even put in an invite for this shabbos...We're out of town...
When can we see you?

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty free on most weekends now, as long as I schedule in homework time. Otherwise, I can usually adjust the weekday evening schedule for visits then with prior planning, since I no longer have scheduled phone calls to work things around.

[identity profile] sharonaf.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 09:33 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* Maybe an evening would be good, to be a distraction against lack of phone calls. Poor Maya.
We'll be in touch, then...

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I get out of classes at 5:30, and am usually free after that- what evenings tend to be better for you?

[identity profile] ladynomi.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)
It's been said many times before but *HUGHUGHUGHUG*

Anything I can do for you, let me know.

[identity profile] margavriel.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 12:37 pm (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear it. (I was wondering what the "oh hell" was about in your away message.) Feel better! I know how rough that must be.

[identity profile] spin0za1.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 12:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear it. *hugs from a stranger*

[identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 01:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. :( I wish I had some sort of magic panacea for you. *hugs*

[identity profile] hannahlin.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 02:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs from me, too. And everything you said to me yesterday goes for you too.

(Anonymous) 2006-10-18 02:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, Maya. I hope that despite feeling lost and confused, everything will turn out alright for you...you are a strong and wonderful woman!

[identity profile] doodah.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)
(that was me, oops!)
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[identity profile] naomichana.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry.

Please consider me to have said whichever of these is most appropriate for your current frame of mind:
(a) Wow, he's an idiot.
(b) I'm sure he meant well. [This is actually a more polite version of (a) in my native idiom.]
(c) Do you want ice cream, chocolate, or both?

[identity profile] tovah623.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
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[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd love to if I were in the Boston area... Consider me there in spirit, in the meantime.

[identity profile] redlily.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my Lord, I am so sorry. Been there, wallowed in that. Somehow I think you'll handle it much better than I.

Do you want me to send you my mix CD for the brokenhearted? There's some good stuff on there.

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a lovely offer- sure. I'm not sure how much I'll listen to it: any music at all tends to make me sob when I'm down already, but I often like your taste in music, and maybe it'll help.

[identity profile] shirei-shibolim.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 04:08 pm (UTC)(link)
*hug*

We'll talk.

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I'll catch you on IM at some point, unless you're back to actual speaking.

[identity profile] gallusgallus.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Lost? Confused? Then you need... a hug!

Hope everything settles down soon, Maya. Peace be with you.

[identity profile] skyblue-dreamer.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Maya, I'm so sorry. *very long distance hugs* I wish I could provide more in-person support, but I am too far away. Feel free to e-mail if you need to talk (or I can call you if you'd like).

[identity profile] ergood.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry! Call me if you need someone to vent to or just someone to talk to...any time, i don't care if its 3 in the morning. I'd probably be up anyway. Let me know if I can help in anyway.
**HUGSHUGSHUGS**

[identity profile] gelishan.livejournal.com 2006-10-18 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Joining the bandwagon (flippant as that sounds):

*Hug* I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] orawnzva.livejournal.com 2006-10-19 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*