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debka_notion ([personal profile] debka_notion) wrote2010-07-29 08:41 pm

Explorations in Preparation, and A Trip to NYC

Yesterday, H and I went to see a space (the one we're going to use) for our wedding, and had a preliminary conversation with a caterer, for the same. From there, we went to NYC, spent some time at the Museum of Natural History (H adores dinosaurs, and it made a lovely contrast for me- I'd tried to go there with some previous boyfriends/dates, and it never worked- sometimes more dramatically than others. So going and making it there was sort of a symbolic thing for me. After the museum closed, we walked downtown to meet H's oldest childhood friend, whom he hadn't seen in a number of years. So they got caught up, I met Steve, and we briefly met his wife (and I got to hear a lot of delightful childhood stories). I'd been pretty nervous about it, beforehand, but it went well- I was delighted by how easily and pleasantly Steve laughed. Then he traveled with us to where we were staying (fairly close to his home), helped us find [livejournal.com profile] hatam_soferet's building, and we said our goodbyes. Seeing [livejournal.com profile] hatam_soferet, whom I haven't seen in Quite a while, was lovely, and I was very pleased that we got to hang out a bit before heading to sleep.

Tomorrow- another trip to my pulpit, and then on Sunday, H heads off to Boston to start his training for his job this year...

[identity profile] redlily.livejournal.com 2010-07-30 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
OH SNAP YOU GOT ENGAGED TOO

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2010-07-30 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry- I put it up on facebook, and forgot to put it up on here. Part of it was that we got engaged some indeterminate amount of time ago (the general gist is that we made up our minds, told immediate family, and wanted to wait a while to have a proper proposal and Then tell friends, but after a while, it felt like we were ready to tell everyone and get to work with the wedding planning, so we started telling people. We've only been together about 5 months, but it feels like so much longer- everything Fits.