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debka_notion ([personal profile] debka_notion) wrote2010-07-29 08:41 pm

Explorations in Preparation, and A Trip to NYC

Yesterday, H and I went to see a space (the one we're going to use) for our wedding, and had a preliminary conversation with a caterer, for the same. From there, we went to NYC, spent some time at the Museum of Natural History (H adores dinosaurs, and it made a lovely contrast for me- I'd tried to go there with some previous boyfriends/dates, and it never worked- sometimes more dramatically than others. So going and making it there was sort of a symbolic thing for me. After the museum closed, we walked downtown to meet H's oldest childhood friend, whom he hadn't seen in a number of years. So they got caught up, I met Steve, and we briefly met his wife (and I got to hear a lot of delightful childhood stories). I'd been pretty nervous about it, beforehand, but it went well- I was delighted by how easily and pleasantly Steve laughed. Then he traveled with us to where we were staying (fairly close to his home), helped us find [livejournal.com profile] hatam_soferet's building, and we said our goodbyes. Seeing [livejournal.com profile] hatam_soferet, whom I haven't seen in Quite a while, was lovely, and I was very pleased that we got to hang out a bit before heading to sleep.

Tomorrow- another trip to my pulpit, and then on Sunday, H heads off to Boston to start his training for his job this year...

[identity profile] boroparkpyro.livejournal.com 2010-07-30 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
Was the proposal at the natural history museum in front of a bunch of dinosaurs? that would be cool ;-)

[identity profile] debka-notion.livejournal.com 2010-07-30 11:45 am (UTC)(link)
There wasn't exactly a proposal, per se- more a "can you be patient for a while, while I put together a proposal?" and then a realization that we were ready to tell our friends already. Perhaps when we get around to the ring part of things (probably this winter, there are family rings to pick from, basically)- that would be the time for a proposal, but as we've already made up our minds, told everyone (rather a bit later), a proposal seems a bit pointless at this juncture.